Long Distance Relationship Success Stories
Success Stories
Name: Raquel R.
Place: sarasota, United States
Year: < 1 year(s)
Distance: 1800
Now what, you ask, could be romantic about a same gender, multiracial, long distance relationship with romeo and juliet conflicts? ...Everything.
The story begins with myself last year. I had a group of online friends from an art site that I came to know and love, and when we wanted to talk, we chatted together on skype. At one point, my best friend introduced me to another artist that she thought wed get along.
And that's when I met her: Brigitte.
At first, I was too shy to speak to her because she was just so talented and popular, not to mention she was 2 years my junior (17 and 15) For someone so godly, I couldn't help but feel abashed. But it wasn't long before we began talking a lot, more and quite often, til we became good friends.
At first, we became each others crying shoulder. We ranted about our angers and moped of our sorrows to eachother, unbeknownst it was making us closer. One night I even consoled her about everything wrong in her life, and sent a bear to her to help. She responded with sheer joy and gratefulness, claiming I had become her gaurdian angel. Not only of our emotions, but we had every single thing in common. We could talk for hours and laugh endlessly. It was strange to connect so easily with someone I had only just met, and that I very much admired. Not to mention, she is very attractive! A cute short asian, filled with giggles and cuteness.
But after being single for so long, I didn't even realize that I didn't feel empty or lonely. Twas not friendship, ...but love. It hit me like a ton of bricks one day and I decided to act upon it. I subconciously started flirting with her, as she did to me. It felt like we were already together, even though we didn't even know we had mutual feelings.
Then of course came the day I asked her out. Well, actually it was in the dead of night. Whether it was my sleepiness or bashfulness, I was very very awkward and beat around the bush with my request. She took to it like I had asked her if she liked candy or not. Her answer: an absolute yes.
Yes, we indeed became a happy couple full of webcam kisses, 6-hour chats and phonecalls. It even grew to writing letters back and forth from her colorado to my florida. All seemed well until we both knew one same dreadful feeling: we HAD to see each other face to face.
I had wanted to fly to see her asap, but at that point I was still a minor, and her father did not want that responsibility of an injury possibility to me. So, I postponed it to november where I will be 18 by then, and ill finally meet her for THE FIRST TIME! It'll be one week of love and fun, and I am very excited.
So tell me, what's the compatibility of: white/asian? 5'8"/4'11"? Loud/shy? Same gender? Hundreds of miles away with love in every step in its travel?
My answer, 100%. ;)
I LOVE YOU BRIG!
Name: Connie Shen
Place: cincinatti, United States
Year: < 1 year(s)
Distance: 4000
I met my current boyfriend in the 6th grade, when we both attended the same middle school. I didn't really become good friends with him though until the 8th grade, where I developed a bit of a crush. I was always afraid to say something, though, because by that time we had become best friends and I was terrified that if he didn't feel the same way, our friendship would suffer. Sophomore year rolled around, however, and things just kind of fell into place. We started dating at the beginning on the year. So far, we're going on ten months. It's been an amazing relationship. 2 months ago, however, he learned that his dad was taking a job in Rhode Island. I'm devastated. I love this boy. Not some cliche, teenage, head-over-heels type of puppy love, but an honest-to-goodness love. He may be my boyfriend, but he is first and foremost my best friend. He left for Rhode Island 3 days ago, and even though I had 2 months of steeling myself for this moment, it doesn't make it hurt any less. I miss him so much. Not only am I sad for all of the high school memories that we won't be able to share, but I also feel so badly about the fact that he has to leave everything behind. He had a lot going for him at our school, and he won't be able to continue those things at the same caliber in Rhode Island. I just wanted to share my story in the hopes that maybe someone out there has gone through the same thing. I thank God every day for him, and even though this situation hurts every day, I know how blessed I am to have him. I know we'll get through this. I just need a little hope now and again.
Name: pRincEsz. boSz
Place: Pampanga, Philippines
Year: 19 year(s)
Distance: 10
we have a smaLL ceLebration with my famiLy and relatives .. i was 15 years oLd bAck then, and i never had a boyfriend since birth.. my uncle ask me if i want to have one,he said he'll l0ok for me since he's w0rking in U.S.A And have a lots of friends.. 2 years Later,he told me boUt his friend,he ask me f0r my pictures,then when he cAme bAck in U.S.A he send that pictUres to his friend , when his friend finaLLY received my ph0tos, we started talking by ph0ne and have c0mmuncati0n,he is mexcAn and im filipin0,he is 5 year ahead of me,he is so funny and kind.. He always t0ld me he has a big big n0se and big big ears.. and he is overweight.. i ask my tito if its true, he disagree.. we always talk bout what happened everyday.. he t0ld me bout his past,and i knew that he never had a girlfriend ..I t0ld him b0ut my ec0n0mical status, he gave me advice when i have problems.. he gave me m0tive in life,and strenght.. and help me as well.. eventh0ugh we did n0t even met yet, i feel that he is c0ncern f0r me, he is caring and l0ving,i started to fall inl0ve to him.. eventh0ugh he always say aboUt his bad sides, i ask for his pictures so i will have an idea h0w he l0oks like but he refused.. But my tito take a ph0to of him and gave me , he t0ld my tito n0t to gave them to me.. but i keep bugging my tito,so he gave the ph0tos of him.. when i see him by pictures, I was like..Shit!! this guy is hands0me m0re than i expected.. i fell inl0ve with him even m0re.. i always miss his v0ice,his j0kes, but at that same time he want us to be just friends,he call me a lil sister.. i th0ught he doesnt likes me.. he want to st0p our c0mmuncati0n, he said he d0nt want to fall inl0ve with me thats why he did n0t visit me 2 times.. he said, when the time c0mes i am getting married..He will c0me.. i get hurt and l0ose h0pe that s0meday he will l0ve me bAck.. Then i agree to st0p our c0mmunicati0n, at that time i want to f0rget him and m0ve on.. i drink, and i even attempt suicide, i email him, and said i was drunk, and its weird he cAres, A l0ts of questi0n running in my mind,is this guy likes me or likes me only lil sister and as a friend.. after 3 days, he gave my pictures baCk, then my tito aCcepted them..I realize that we have l0ts of difFerences,he is a real christian while im cAth0lic, buT after all thats n0t becAme a big treat f0r us, after a m0nth., He t0ld me what he feels bouT me and i knew that its n0t a lil sister or even a friend,i knew that he l0ves me m0re than a friend, january 29,20o9, we starteD to cALL eaCh other baBe,S0metimes we argue, buT i guess its n0rmal.. may o7,20o9, he fly in phil. to visit me.. he pRo0ve to me that he l0ves me, then at may 3o, he cAme bAck h0me in U.S.A , buT beFore he leave, he ask me to wait f0r him, he prop0se to me and gave me a ring..
Name: Sammie Paige Hitchcock
Place: London, United Kingdom
Year: < 1 year(s)
Distance: 183
I think most LDR start through the net. But the one's i've read about are from chat rooms! Uho hope your all being safe. Im 16 and i used to own a DJ site and we was looking around the net for DJ's [A Site Where People Can Come And Listen To Good DJ's & Music] and we had a few. One day i was upset so i was DJ'ing but was shouted at everybody then one of the Dj's called DJ-quack and i started cussing his name. Becuase the DJ manager had my name becuase i owned the sight. He gave "DJ-Quack" my msn so he can complaine to me himself and after 2 months of getting to no eachother through msn we became a item. Its been 10 months now and we havent met. I live in London (UK) and he lives in New Mills (Uk- Near Peak Distrike]. Were hopeing to meet soon. But we already no where in love. Our parents love the fact were going on personailty but when i saw him on webcam i fell in love. I cant waite too spend my life with him. Im 16 and hes 18. As for all of you other LDR people. Good luck! <3
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