By abiding with some simple techniques, women can make the experience of dating a fulfilling one. In this article which shall discuss a simple guide for women to make you more successful in dating.
The first and foremost tip is that you need to be true to yourself. Most of us are so eager to impress our dates that we try and do exactly what they want us to do. For most experienced and intelligent men, it doesn’t take long to see through the façade, and it may turn out to be quite a turn off for most.
Don’t Keep Your Man Waiting
Being punctual is of utmost importance. As you would want to be taken seriously by a man and not treated like someone whose time can be wasted at will, so can your date expect the same from you. Do not expect to be taken seriously and treated with respect, if you cannot do the same.
While it is advisable to be on your guard, it doesn’t mean that you cannot have fun. Be gracious when compliments are offered and return them appropriately. Don’t go overboard to show how cool or trendy you are. Be perceptive of your date’s tastes and choices. Be charming but also allow your date to be the man around and let him steer you through the intricacies, wherever deemed appropriate.
Things which are better left unsaid
Make sure that you don’t bring up family issues or financial topics when meeting a guy.
Appearance is key – a guy can take one look and decide that you are not for him. Remember first impressions are lasting; yes there are some days where we can’t help but look out of the ordinary but when going on a date you should make sure that this is not the day.
Keep your first conversation general – remember this is just the first date. You do not want to tell your life story to someone who may not call you in the morning for whatever reason. Try not to divulge any personal details.
Do not seem too quick to jump into a relationship – Men can find it scary if on the first date you are talking about marriage. You can talk about your dreams of a career and family but do not get too in detail.
Pay attention – look at the way he interacts with his surroundings and the staff of attendants. This will give you a good idea of what it is that he is looking for from you. So, are you sitting at a corner seat, far from the door with poor lighting?